20 Responses to “Is It Wrong To Look At Adult Films?”

1. John Doe 1st Says:
   12月 16th, 2009 at 06:50

   Erotica is simply an alternative form of sexual arousal; it is harmless fantasy and nothing more.
   Regarding fantasy, Helen Fisher (”The First Sex,” Ballantine Books, Feb. 2000) says that 71 percent of men and 72 percent of women fantasize while having sex with a partner. Men fantasize about conquest and domination, women about submission and surrender.
   Dr. Joyce Brothers says, “It might relieve some of your guilt to know that many happily married individuals who have no thought or intention of ever betraying their spouse have sexual fantasies about someone other than their spouse.”
   Both men and women (single and in a relationship) have shown a desire to enjoy erotica in some form.
   Don’t worry about it.

2. Zaferus Says:
   12月 16th, 2009 at 13:37

   Maybe it’s your husbands dream come true and you just don’t know it yet.
   Maybe broach the subject in passing when an opportunity occurs and see what his reaction is, and if he responds positively from there maybe you have a whole new “world” to explore with each other!

3. ccudd13 Says:
   12月 16th, 2009 at 19:07

   I’ll watch them with you

4. mparrish Says:
   12月 16th, 2009 at 19:34

   i say go for it……if it helps you relive some tension and it is just you and no one else than get the party started. just because he might get angry over the movies just ask him would he rather you be at home or at the club looking…..

5. LoB Says:
   12月 16th, 2009 at 22:42

   Many of us do it. If he doesn’t approve, he must be religious (in a bad way) or threatened.

6. baseball Says:
   12月 17th, 2009 at 03:06

   no -why not involve your spouse-he would prob get a kick out of it

7. miester4 Says:
   12月 17th, 2009 at 03:51

   although I’m not trying to stereotype your husband most men who don’t like or will not watch porn tend not to be very sexually adventurous. Watching porn can give you ideas on things to try and help to keep sex from getting boring and the same old way every time. How do you know if he would get angry? Just ask he may surprise you but if he does get angry then he’s not being the husband he should be…..

8. 匿名 Says:
   12月 17th, 2009 at 07:22

   You shouldn’t’ t be doing it behind his back…that’s for sure!!!! but on the other hand is the fact that he is not the boss of you (not to sound 5 or anything but he’s not) talk to him, tell him you like it and find out why he doesn’t approve. if it is because hes jealous than reassure him. maybe you could do it together. if there is no way he will be comfortable with it than maybe you should give it up in the long run does it really matter for the love, trust and happiness of your marriage?

9. momfirst Says:
   12月 17th, 2009 at 11:37

   I think it is wrong to star in adult films, or to watch adult films of people that you know, or to be involved in a community of people who share their porn. Simply watching a porn is not wrong, but maybe it gets you hot partially because you think it would upset him. Don’t tell, it’s not a big deal.

10. VOLLEYBALL Hottie!!! Says:
    12月 17th, 2009 at 12:15

    No mater if you are married or not it is still VERY WRONG!!!! You should not be looking at that, it is hurtful and unforgivable.

11. Fashay Says:
    12月 17th, 2009 at 13:44

    It’s nothing wrong with it. Ask him about it he might like it to but he’s just not telling you.

12. Linsy Says:
    12月 17th, 2009 at 20:02

    your husband must not be doing it for you. It wouldnt be a bad thing if you told him aobut it. IF your hiding something from him then no matter what it is it’s wrong

13. terry Says:
    12月 17th, 2009 at 23:48

    If you are married and not wanting to cheat and it helps you sexually go for it.

14. KerryAnn Says:
    12月 18th, 2009 at 01:01

    No its not wrong at all

15. Deb Says:
    12月 18th, 2009 at 07:27

    nothing wrong with it. I agree with the one who said they never met a man who didnt like porn. lol….Has he ever watched it WITH you. You can try to approach the subject again and see what he says.

16. rgehron1 Says:
    12月 18th, 2009 at 13:42

    alot of couples watch those together, it can add some spice into your life….maybe subtley bring it up and ask him to watch it with you…i think you might get a different reaction than you are expecting….i don’t know of a man who doesn’t like porn, married or not

17. lisa baby Says:
    12月 18th, 2009 at 17:12

    well if he would never approve and he would be angry..then you probebly shouldnt do it, i mean is it worth giving him self asteem issues..or compromsing your marriage over? it would be different if he also liked them…but he doesnt …so its best in MY opinion if u stay away from them…

18. windwalk Says:
    12月 18th, 2009 at 18:47

    no it’s not wrong watching porn and getting that feeling is natural thats why so many guys like to watch it i can’t believe your husband is that big of a prude that he wouldn’t enjoy it with you.

19. 匿名 Says:
    12月 18th, 2009 at 19:05

    You should watch them with him. If he don’t like them try softer porn if there is such a thing.

20. 匿名 Says:
    12月 18th, 2009 at 23:41

    nothing wrong with it cause its what you like and if he gets mad he might be insacure so you gatta let him now its only a movie and you still love him

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